The Veterans Day National Ceremony is held each year on November 11th at
Arlington National Cemetery . The ceremony commences precisely at 11:00
a.m. with a wreath laying at the Tomb of the Unknowns and continues
inside the Memorial Amphitheater with a parade of colors by veterans'
organizations and remarks from dignitaries. The ceremony is intended to
honor and thank all who served in the United States Armed Forces.
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The Veterans Day National Committee also selects a number of regional
sites for Veterans Day observances throughout the country. From stirring
parades and ceremonies to military exhibits and tributes to
distinguished veterans, these events serve as models for other
communities to follow in planning their own observances.
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Schools and communities invite veterans of all backgrounds to share their stories and receive thanks for their years of service.
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providing art and opportunities to help in healing combat stress, ptsd and TBI for veterans and military family members.
Saturday, October 20, 2012
Mother to Mother - Complications
Mother to Mother #5
It’s not easy to be a
survivor. Although others can’t see the scars from traumatic brain injury we
feel the complications. I get lost
frequently, even if I have been to that place previously. It’s a scary feeling
when you can’t find your way home. It’s embarrassing and very inconvenient. My
sweet husband bought me a GPS (global positioning system) for my little car. Before
GPS my travel was difficult. I could follow highway markers and drove myself and
sons across the United States. Where there weren’t clear signs I’d miss turns. I’m
sure I turned the wrong way 100% of the time.
I even navigated roads through Germany, France, Spain, Sweden and
Denmark by myself. The signs were not in English but that wasn’t a problem for
me. Going the right direction is a huge problem for me. It’s always a surprise when I find the store
I’m looking for. It isn’t something you want others to know about you
especially if you are male. Remember it is an injury not a sign of retardation.
Although it makes you feel stupid you are not.
Explosions may cause broken ear drums. I found after
my eardrum was broken I had no sense of sound direction. The doctors will tell you
your ear drum heals by itself. My ear, nose and throat doctor says the scar
tissue doesn’t always cause loss of sound direction discrimination. But it did
in my case.
With little driving experience and those two
handicaps I finally had the freedom to drive everywhere. I have never had an
accident. That is why I know the Lord looks out for his children.
Friday, October 5, 2012
Mother to Mother #4
I’ve spent the
last week at 5 events where Dr. Joe Heck has also been. One of them was the
Gold Star Mother’s Sunday Memorial Service. Our local one is held in Boulder
City, Nevada. The Veteran’s Cemetery is also in Boulder City.
I
mentioned Colonel Heck because he is our representative from Nevada in
Washington D.C. and an emergency physician with the Army (now reserves). He
wrote a paper for Joint Forces Staff college, titled; Minor Traumatic Brain Injury: Rethinking the Treatment Paradigm. Which
I may refer to in my blogs.
Basically
what I
hear Dr. Heck saying is too many
of our service members do not get adequate pre and post deployment
neurocognitive assessments. This is due to a number of factors. The military does use a screening tool
called MACE which stands for Military Acute Concussion Evaluation.
Soldiers themselves under-report incidents.
What it means to
us as parents and spouses of service
members deployed in “hot zones”, is that
we should be cognizant of undiagnosed TBI and discretely look for signs
of memory loss or changes in motor function. If you do notice changes seek more
information or professional help in dealing with them. It would have made a significant difference in our lives if I knew how much
we were injured but that information was kept from me and my son. You
know your loved one, I’m not giving
any advice other than given the nature of warfare in Iraq and Afghanistan
be aware of the possibility of undiagnosed
mild to moderate traumatic brain injury.
Mother to Mother #3
My son’s brain
injuries were repeated and severe. He didn’t get any help when they
happened. You know the effects of recurring brain injury
are cumulative. The fact that they are survivors gives us the chance to help
them. I researched medical journals and
scientific magazines, the web and talked to my son’s doctors.
I have found my son has benefited in the
last 10 years from some over the counter supplements. These
include Acetyl-L-Carnitine-Arginate which promotes neurite growth, Omega 3 fish
oil which aides brain function and Melatonin which promotes sleep and is
protective against further neurological impairment due to chemicals produced
from the TBI. Calcium supplements help prevent strokes. I also give my son
vitamin E & C + a multi-vitamin
daily. The theory is that E & C used
together help prevent early onset Alzheimer’s which could be the result of TBI.
John was on
Depakote for seizures from the brain injury for years. Doctors were surprised
when they found out from tests and the progress patients made that Depakote
actually helped promote growth of new neurons
in the brain. Recently John was switched to Lamictal for his seizures. We have noticed he is
functioning at a higher level than before this medication.
The challenge
is to get your child to a great
neurologist that will work with you to restore as much of your child’s
abilities as possible. I understand the heartbreak of finding your child’s life
is drastically changed. As the caregiver
you can make a huge difference. Learn as
much as you can, find a friend you can talk to and just continue to love your
child and appreciate the time you have together.
I am a mom like
you, but I’ve been struggling to help my son for many years now. My hope is
that what we learned from our experience will be helpful to accelerate you child’s recovery.
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