Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Mother to Mother - Service Dog Training



by Mavis MacDowell
The perils of training a service dog.  I’m sure you can avoid the pitfalls we have been having the first  two weeks with our service dog in training. Our timing was awful. I had pre-paid for the dog before she was born, waiting for the next white female Doberman to be born. I didn’t know that my son John would get a chance at hip replacement and I would be told to have foot surgery again before Obama care kicked in.
            When the dog was eight weeks old she was shipped from South Carolina to us in Henderson, Nevada. Both John and I were unable to walk well at this point. We decided not to have her ears done. It is banned in Europe and we like her soft ears. That meant she came  three weeks earlier.
            Maybe some of you have this other complication in your lives  also. If you don’t   you have something to be thankful for.   I honestly didn’t think my youngest son would give my sister John’s hospital room  #,  our unlisted home phone # and John’s  cell phone #. He did and she gave them to John’s abuser. He called all  three several times this month upsetting us all. He called our home phone from the Flamingo Hotel in town. He   told John he was coming, and it scared him. Those of you  not familiar with the Flamingo , it is a dirty, old musty, cheap hotel. So it didn’t take much imagination to  know who was calling and  not talking when my husband answered. I hope none of you have an enemy that will persist for  most of your life. John’s PTSD hasn’t been a problem since the hospital despite the  calls.  We were with him when he got the other calls  and didn’t let him  harass Johnny so he felt safer. My sweet husband has stuck by us and endured all the problems for 34 years.   We are very fortunate.    
 However this large puppy who just loves to lie on his lap every time he sits on the couch, kisses him and chews on everything is wearing his sweetness thin.  She does obey commands for; potty, sit, down, no, come and quiet. She can open doors, ( we have lever handles) climb up on the couch, look over the kitchen table to see what’s for dinner and stand up and explore the refrigerator when it’s open. She plays too rough with the   two Pekinese. Like any other puppy she has accidents. She  learned when treat time was quickly.
Freja,   is the Swedish spelling for the Viking princess of  love and war. She is getting used to her Doggles. They are doggie sunglasses to keep dust and dirt and bright sunlight out of her light blue eyes. In our climate she needs them.
The service dog trainer  starts Monday. We are hopeful this will work and  my son will have a helpful companion for many years. 

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